What makes a real New Yorker? Some say you must be born in one of the five boroughs. While I wasn’t born here, after living in New York City for 14 years and contributing to six guidebooks, I’ve relished every moment. I’ve navigated through NYC’s bustling streets, snagged sought-after dining reservations, and immersed myself in the vibrant local culture. NYC is woven into my identity.

Now, let’s dive into six common questions that out-of-towners often ask about experiencing this dynamic metropolis like a true urbanite.

Where should I stay in New York?

When it comes to accommodations, location is essential. Travel times between boroughs and even different parts of Manhattan can be lengthy. Determine which neighborhood piques your interest and choose a hotel accordingly.

• For a central location that avoids the chaos of Midtown, consider the charming streets of the West Village or Chelsea, where art and nature abound.
• If vibrant nightlife and trendy shops captivate you, the Lower East Side is an ideal choice, bursting with unique bars and boutiques.
• Don’t overlook Brooklyn! Williamsburg offers stunning hotels with views of Midtown’s skyline, just a subway ride away from exciting nightlife.
• On a budget? Check out Harlem Flophouse for a cozy experience or Pod Brooklyn for compact accommodations.

What’s the best way to get around NYC?

New York is a pedestrian-friendly city, characterized by its fast pace. Locals utilize sidewalks to navigate effectively, following unspoken rules like walking in single-file when needed.

NYC has a well-connected subway, offering an efficient way to traverse the city. For those preferring two wheels, biking is increasingly popular thanks to over 600 miles of protected bike lanes. Services like Citi Bike provide an excellent alternative for getting around. However, if you’re not confident on a bike, it’s advisable to stick to public transport or walking.

Where should I eat?

NYC’s culinary landscape is nothing short of extraordinary. From Michelin-starred restaurants to iconic pizza joints, the options are endless.

• Indulge in South Indian cuisine at Semma or explore hearty American fare at beloved local diners.
• For the best bagels and pizza, destinations like Absolute Bagels and Scarr’s offer some of the finest options in the city.
• Stroll through Chinatown for delicious dumplings or visit seasonal food markets like Smorgasburg for a taste of various local foods.

Where should I go out for drinks and dancing?

To enjoy cocktail culture and vibrant nightlife, focus on the East Village and Lower East Side. Each area boasts a wealth of cocktail bars, many with expertly crafted drinks.

• For craft beer enthusiasts, North Brooklyn has a variety of breweries, including women-owned establishments.
• When the time comes to dance, head to venues in East Williamsburg, Bushwick, and Queens, known for their eclectic music scenes.

What is the best way to see a Broadway show?

First, select a show that genuinely interests you. Popular productions may cost more but are often iconic, while Off-Broadway offerings can surprise you with their creativity. Utilize platforms like TodayTix for potential discounts or look for same-day rush tickets for a chance at savings.

Exploring new productions at local theaters can also yield remarkable performances, as many future hits emerge from these smaller venues.

What can I do without breaking the bank?

Manhattan is known for its high cost of living, yet free or low-cost attractions abound in NYC:

• Walk through Central Park’s sprawling greenery or enjoy stunning views of the Statue of Liberty from the Staten Island Ferry.
• Explore iconic structures like the Brooklyn Bridge or catch free outdoor concerts in local parks.
• Many museums offer free entry on select days or economical pay-what-you-wish options.

Furthermore, look for food specials and affordable dining options throughout the city to satisfy your budget without sacrificing taste.

My happy place

After enjoying delicious local pastries, nothing beats a leisurely walk along the Brooklyn Heights Promenade, where breathtaking views extend from Lady Liberty to the splendor of Lower Manhattan’s skyline. This tradition is a quintessential New York experience that beautifully showcases the city’s unique charm.