Summary
Stuck on a plane with a crying baby? Here’s what to do.
Fact checked by Elizabeth MacLennan
Lizzie Post, the great-great-granddaughter of Emily Post, author and co-host of The Awesome Etiquette Podcast, has shared some valuable insights regarding travel etiquette, specifically concerning children on airplanes.
1. Understanding Your Mantra
“Patience, and find your happy place within.”
2. Dealing with Crying Babies
“If a baby is crying, there’s nothing you can do about it, and that parent is stressed to the max about it; 99.9% of parents I meet dread flights. It is essential to give that parent the benefit of the doubt, as they are likely trying to calm their baby. Flying doesn’t allow for an escape, so it’s crucial to think positively about what parents are experiencing.”
3. Handling Disruptive Behavior
“When children start to get a bit older, it’s vital to remember that you cannot discipline them. It’s more effective to politely inform the adult, saying something like, ‘I’m not sure if you’ve noticed, but your child is kicking my seat.’ Most people do not want their kids to disturb others and will often respond positively.”
4. Staying Calm Amidst Noise
“If someone requests that you calm your crying baby, it can be helpful to reassure the parent sitting next to them by offering support, like saying, ‘You’re doing a great job.’ It’s common to feel apologetic as a parent, but one shouldn’t feel guilty for the noise, even if it affects others.”
5. Traveling with Young Children
“Sometimes, traveling with a baby is necessary. Parents need to take their children along, especially when they are very young or require breastfeeding. It’s important for parents to be aware of venues, ensuring babies aren’t taken to places where they’re not welcome.”
6. Preparing Kids for Flights
“It’s essential to prepare children to sit still for extended periods by ensuring they are entertained. This can involve bringing coloring books or suitable games. Engage with them when they begin to fidget, perhaps suggesting a walk down the aisle.”
7. Final Thoughts and Tips
“Bringing along items like Advil, earplugs, or candies can ease concerns for those around you. It’s vital for parents to feel comfortable traveling with their children without the need for an ‘I’m sorry’ kit. Understanding that traveling with kids is a shared experience can greatly improve the atmosphere on flights.”
